Dear Child of Mine,

In a world that is uncertain, whether because of graduation, tragic events or life choices, hold fast to these truths. Read them over and over again until they anchor your soul.

• You are loved. Nothing you do will ever change that. 

• Be authentic. Be who you are. Let the inside & the outside match. Don’t try to impress with outward appearances. What really shows is the heart, so ask your heart how it’s doing. 

• Take responsibility for yourself. You are not a victim.

• Be kind to everyone, especially children.

• Play. Laugh. Dance. Sing. Be silly. It’s good for your heart.

• Every day is a new day… a fresh start. 

• Forgive. Holding onto hurt causes bitterness. Bitterness will drive people away from you; forgiveness will draw them to you.

• Relationships are what matter most. Build bridges, not walls. This is true personally & professionally.

• Persevere. Good things come to those who do their best & don’t give up.

• What matters most about a person is the heart… not skin color, looks, height, weight, money or popularity.

• Education is the key to your future.

• Find your fit.

• It’s okay to ask for help.

• There’s usually more than one way to get where you’re going.

• You can always come home.

• Take time to process. Let yourself feel what you need to feel. Talk things through. There is no need to rush big decisions.

• It’s okay not to be okay. 

• You are a treasure!

• Connection, relationship; they're more important than being right.

• Life is a great adventure. Enjoy the ride!

And always remember: I love you.

With all my heart,

Mama